S for Strengthen


Personality plays a vital role in today’s world. The highly successful man impresses you at once by his personal bearing, manner of speaking, general speaking etc. The man who possesses both ability and personality has distinct advantage. In order to be a successful person one must have desire , ability to understand  human behavior and keen to know weaknesses within self  and  .General weakness of human being is that the syndrome of “I am Ok , you are not Ok” i.e. what ever I think that is right and others are wrong . Man is a combination of weak and strong points and endeavor should be to neutralities those points. 

A person may be a riddle for the society, but for himself, he knows the solution of the riddle as he only knows himself in a better manner. In order to have improvement in the personality, it would be pragmatic to know where you stand .In order to know this, it is necessary to do self -evaluation.  

Let us identify areas of personality:

Personality can be divided into three parts:       

               ·   Physical

               ·    Mental

               ·    Social  

“Constant self-evaluation is required in order to progress in life”.
                                                                                                       - Ashutosh Karnatak
 

Constant self-evaluation is required in order to progress in life. Generally, we lack on this subject. It should be done on regular basis, and whenever we find problem in dealing with the situation or in our attitude, corrective action should be taken and these actions are required to be continued life long. There is no end to corrections. It’s an ongoing process. If some person says that he is the perfect personality - he is under a big illusion and possesses only a negative attitude. Perfection is very difficult to achieve however we can strive for perfection by doing correction on the shortcoming known after self – analysis .The methodology of doing self – analysis is as under:   First of all identification of self as per following parameters is required to be done: 

1) Analysis of Physical Parameters:

a) Height:            

                Tall  - Medium - Short

b) Physique          

               Fat    - Thin       - Moderate

c) Color                

                Black - Fair         - White 

2) Analysis of Mental Parameters:               

                Sharp     - Moderate - Dull 

3) Analysis of Social Parameters:        

                 Rich   - Moderate - Poor       

                 Social – Unsociable       

                 Behavior – Social, Anti-social        

                 Attitude --  Positive, Negative  

Further to self evaluation micro-analysis of strength and shortcoming (SS analysis) can be made.

SS analysis: It is called Strength- Shortcoming analysis. It is used by individuals to identify strengths and shortcomings. Strengths are to be exploited and shortcomings are to be improved. This analysis is required to be done time to time as it varies with time. Today’s weakness may be tomorrow’s strength. Suppose, today you don’t know computer programming: it is your weakness, but after getting trained it shall be converted into strength. So , the SS analysis, varies from time to time. It may be worth noting that the results of this analysis depend upon the truthfulness of the data, given by the individual. If is to be done with sincere efforts, individual can take the advantage of it for improvement. The best part of it is that you are doing analysis of yourself without help of any outside agency. Who knows you better than yourself? This analysis is required to be done at least twice in a year. It’s not only indicates your shortcomings but also tells about the improvement being undertaken by you.

 

It can be done as per the following table:

  Date of Analysis:   31.12.2007 
    Strength        Shortcomimg
1.2.3.4.5. 1.2.3.4.5. 

From the above table , you could note your shortcomings .Some of the weak links are not in your control , like short stature . what you can do for it ,only with the avilable pesonality you can have better dress siuting to the stature etc etc , but nothing can be done with the short stature . But definitely when shortcomings are within control ,like improvement in  knowledge – there is a room for improvement , when related to computer knowledge – you can improve upon . Need is to idetify, such shorcomings 

A man having resolute sprits can achieve wonders in overcoming natural difficulties. There may be some one little thing which is holding you back, some one weakness which is keeping your personality undeveloped. We are made not only to work but to achieve also. 

Thus , base on the realisitc analysis – identify weak –links , which are in your control and you can do something . Face these revelation with courage .The first step towrds improvement ois reliasation of weakness ; Yes – I need to improve on these accounts .Develop the courage with strict honesty . Mind it –you and only you know your self.   On a day of analysis you can tabulate your strengths and shortcomings and make a plan to exploit your strengths and improving upon the shortcomings. It can be planned as under:  

ShortcomingTime schedule for improvemnt
1. Short temperBy   30.03 .08
2. Time ConsciousnessBy   30.05.08
3. English SpeakingBy   30 .06.08
4. Negative attitudeBy   30.12.08

After drawing out the broad plan, start the action of corrective actions .Review your progress on weekly basis. You can choose a day for it and note down the review dates in diary. Note down the progress after each review in the same diary. Try to complete this exercise positively before sleeping. If due to busy schedule you are not able to do it, it can be done on the next day.  

While doing the course of improvement, send a signal to your mind that you are observing a change in you in a positive direction .Condition your mind that after completion of the period the particular shortcoming shall be converted into the strength.  

Half yearly schedule for conducting SS analysis is enough, may be 1st January and 1st July. When you practice this on regular basis, you will find that your success rate, popularity, mental conditions has increased. You will feel an internal bliss, an eternal joy. A dramatic change in life shall be experienced.Thus, decide to evaluate yourself and take corrective action to overcome the shortcomings and a blissful life. 

Generally, a person knows very well that what he is, but avoids to do self – evaluation and the improvements   because of following reasons: 

1) I am O.K.  

2) Basic tendency to avoid unpleasant situation . 

3) One wants to be modest and humane. 

4) Whatever he thinks and says is right , others are wrong. 

Persons having negative attitude or inflated self esteem may ultimately bring ruin and disaster. That neither suits to them nor does the society ever accept them. To avoid embarrassing situations, correction in self and self- presentation or projection is required to be undertaken within a stipulated time frame. 

Thus, after undertaking above exercise, one can find a way to new life, a life having new version, armored with new qualities, strengths and vision. Remember following key points:

                  ·     Have a good attire suiting with the occasion.

                        ·     Ever smiling.

                        ·     Be vigilant to happening in your field of operation. 

                        ·     Armor self with new technologies.

                        ·     Meet people frequently.

                        ·     Have Self- Confidence.

                        ·    Have positive Attitude. 

 Future of present Government: An Astrological analysis: 

1)      Bad period for present Government : 25.07.2008-10.11.2008

2)      Bad period for Congress (I) main constituent of government : 09.11.2006- 07.11.2007

3)      Bad period for Sonia Gandhi  UPA chairperson : 30.12.2007-09.05.2008

4)      Bad period for India: 26.01.08-07.07.08, 12.10.08- 01.11.08, 07.03.09 – 02.05.09.

5)      Period for end of Lok- Sabha from November 2007- May 2009 and the worst period is May 2008 and Feb-March 2009. 

Keeping all above factors in view, Thus this present government will not be able to complete its term and the end will by around May 2008.  


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