The story goes that  some time ago, a man punished his 5-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of expensive gold wrapping paper.  Money was tight, and he became even more upset when the child pasted the gold paper so as to decorate a box to put under the  Christmas tree.


Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift box to her father the next morning and said, "This is for you, Daddy." The father was embarrassed by his earlier over reaction, but his anger flared again when he found the box was empty. He spoke to her in a harsh manner, "Don't you know, young lady, when you give someone a present there's supposed to be something inside the package?" The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and said, "Daddy, it's not empty. I blew kisses into it until it was full." The father was crushed.... He fell on his knees and put his arms around his little girl, and he begged  her to forgive him for his unnecessary anger....


An accident took the life of the child only a short time later, and it is told that the father kept that gold box by his bed for all the years of his life. And whenever he was discouraged or faced difficult problems, he would open the box and take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.


In a very real sense, each of us as human beings have been given a golden box filled with unconditional love and kisses from our children, family and friends. There is no other more precious possession anyone could hold.


When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the  mayonnaise jar...and the beer. A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of  him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and  empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.


He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was. So the  professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles  rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They    agreed it was. The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand  filled up everything else.


He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous     "yes. "The professor then produced two cans of beer from under the table and poured the entire contents into  the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.


"Now," said the     professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf  balls are the important things--your family, your children, your health, your friends, your favorite passions--things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, your car. The sand is everything   else--the small stuff. "If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the    pebbles or the golf balls.


 The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,  you will never have room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house, and fix the disposal. "Take care of   the golf balls first, the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand. "One of the   students raised her hand and inquired what the beer represented. The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked.   It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of beers."    


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